Bloggers are stubborn. It’s true. We grow and nurture our babies (our blogs) and we don’t want anyone to tell us how to raise them. Including those who have achieved what we are trying to. Specifically big name bloggers who seem to have it all.
We sort of have a ‘We’ll show them attitude” if we are ever critiqued directly or indirectly on how to make our blog better. Not only are we going to do it on our own, but we will do it better than them and bypass their success just like something out of a teen movie where the nerd dethrones the jock as the most popular kid in school. Okay this ain’t a John Hughes film so let’s get to the reality of it.
Most of these big bloggers have been at it for years. Before WordPress and Blogger. Before Facebook and Twitter. Practically in the stone ages of internet access. So they, unlike you and I got a lot of their traffic and buzz the old fashioned way, like the late great John Houseman would say: “They eaaaaaarned it”.
So yeah they may have a few vital tips or two or a hundred that we need to pay attention to if there is any chance we’re going to succeed at blogging. Here’s 4 things that they tell us that we shouldn’t ignore (but do any way):
1. Becoming a successful blogger requires Hard Work
I mean you almost have no life hard work. A few weeks back I participated in #blogchat on Twitter and I got kind of grumpy because some big bloggers were talking about the amount of work required. I was thinking geez it can’t be that much work. So I took it to task.
I put in some solid straight purposeful hard hours at blogging. I’ll tell you I was exhausted. Posting every day during the week (M-F), guest posting, commenting blogs, networking, working on my social media presence. It was tremendous work. But you know what? It’s paying off
Here’s my April 24th — May 24th Stats on Google Analytics

And here is May 24th — June 24th

So I am pleased. I can definitely testify to the fact that putting in the work equals results. We live in a very instant society and every blogger thinks that overnight we are going to blow up. Some do, but for some it is a very slow process that depends a lot on how much effort we put in to it. To remove any notion that it is easy, if you haven’t already (which many of us have) read/watch Chris Brogan’s “What it takes to be a Overnight Success”.
2. You won’t make a living blogging.
When I read Brazen Careerist Penelope Trunk’s post, “Reality check: You’re not going to make money from your blog” I was crushed. Like I mentioned recently in my post, “3 Simple ways for Bloggers to Make Money” you can make some money, but I’d hold off on purchasing any kind of bling other than of the bubble gum machine variety.
It’s better for the big bloggers to tell us this now. Right upfront. Then, we don’t go in with these unrealistic expectations (like we all already did) of making thousands a month just from blogging alone.
You have to have other skills plus a day job to make money. Things like building websites, creating blog templates, freelance writing, or flipping burgers are a lot more lucrative than just running and maintaining a blog.
3. Say it with me, “Content is king”
When I started blogging I thought these were just pompous words that big bloggers say to us little bloggers, but it is absolutely true. It doesn’t matter how much you love blogging about canoodling with the family cat unless you have 10,000 cat canoodlers running to your blog every day it’s pointless. You’ll always only have a few readers.
We have to write what people want to read or what are we doing? That doesn’t mean we can’t write about what we want to it just means we need to combine a good niche, with great writing, and even better marketing.
Read Copybloggers: “20 Signs that Your Content Sucks” ( I have some work to do)
4. Have a great blog design
Honestly unless you can shell out the money for someone to design your blog this can be a challenge. It is one of the most crucial though because your blogs design is the difference between someone being on your site for 2 seconds or 2 minutes.
Big bloggers say a great header is a must. How many of us have stayed on a site simply because they had a great header even if the content wasn’t? We all have. So that’s half the battle. Now that WordPress 3.0 has launched and yes *fist bump with an explosion* we all love the new default theme Twenty Ten, but it’s guaranteed that of the millions of WordPress blogs half of them will have that template. We have to step away from the pack and try to be different.
My blog template is a premium style free theme, but I learned code, hacks and shortcuts (another work in progress) to try to tweak it to fit my personality. So the advice about design I gained from big bloggers was invaluable becuase my bounce rate went from being 80% to 22%.
Read Nicholas Cardot of Site Sketch 101’s “5 Great Tips to Spruce Up Your Blog’s Design”
While well-known bloggers have gone where the average blogger hasn’t they always share their process with us. So instead of ignoring their suggestions let’s take the time to learn from their successes and failures to become better bloggers.
Thanks for reading,

Somebody’s Speak